Apparently I never really stay on the market very long... lol not sure if that's a good thing or bad thing.  Since my last blog I got over the whole situation.  I apparently wasn't that attached.  I bought a brand new spiffy mp3 player and was so estatic and happy that I forgot about old whatisname... sad situatio nwhen you can be replaced by an electronic device... any kind of electronic device....

 

anywhoo...He apparently missed me and texted me after saying he missed me, but the situation was impossible, another reason we weren't meant to be.  Cant be with someone who thinks like that.  Almost anything is possible if you believe it to be so, but if you can't even put your faith in it, we have already lost.

 

So just when I had waved off all men, and wanted to be alone and hang out with my girls... even made the statement I don't want to go out and meet anyone.  I didnt even want to got to the bar, now how strange is that???? My friend suggests fixing me up with her coworker.  It had been maybe 2 weeks since the break up and for that moment I loosened my stance on men.  I figured what the hell it can't get much worse I'm already alone what difference does it make.

 

So we went on that date and have been dating ever since.  About 3 months now and he met my mother yesterday and I will be meeting his family in July.  Is it really true when you arent looking you find someone?  Maybe... he is all the things I have been looking for... the real things not the things that look good on paper like whatisface... but from interacting its that stuff plus more.  I feel lucky to have randomly met him through my friend.  I've been sickenly happy with minimal anxiety in this relationship.  Go figure?